If asked a typical boy how he would break up with a girl he would straight up say its over. Ask a girl the same question, she would sit him down and tell him it's over in a gentle way and give him an explanation. You see, the girl is usually the more sensitive one in the relationship. Girls take into acount how the guy would feel. Boys simply don't want to care about those kinds of feelings.
A boy wouldn't think of a detailed valentines day. Most times when you go to the mall on February 13, you'll see a bunch of guys doing their last mintue shopping for the one they love. Girls would plan out the whole thing weeks in advance. The whole nine yards, the gift, dinner, movie and what they would want to do later. A guy would rather sit at home and play some NCAA football game then spend time with his girlfriend. Then, when asked to do something simple they're always answering back with "why?"
As can see boys don't have a sincere heart like girls do. Boys have this mind set where the girl needs to cater to him and obey whatever he says. Also, boys in a relationships think they're always right. Most times it's hard for them to admit they've made a mistake, let alone apologize for it. The boy would be the one to lie the most out of the two in a relationship. I know that for a fact because it has happened to me. A break up happened because he didn't want to be honest with me. Maybe boys do say the truth, but leave the things that'll get you pissed off out of the conversation.
Girls on the other hand cause no harm. Girls have a caring heart. They'll forgive quickly, but never forget. Instead of using the bad things that happened bring them done. It's a fire under their butt to keep pushing on forward. Every time a major holiday comes up it's the girl who thinks of everything to do. She does everything the guy asks her to do. And sadly I think girls should stand up and not take that from them anymore. It's sad becaue sometimes girls don't have any say; they just listen. So the boy doesn't look like he's whipped when around his friends. Guys should learn that the girl's feelings should count in a two-person relationship.
Boy's and girl's have their own expectations in a relationship. Boys take a little longer to understand the needs and wants of a girl. Girls shouldn't expect much from their guy. It's not easy being the girlfriend in the relationship because sometimes your feelings don't matter. Eventually the boyfriend will understand and start being the wonderful boyfriend that he can be instead of a macho man.
Wednesday, March 12, 2008
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