If asked a typical boy how he would break up with a girl he would straight up say its over. Ask a girl the same question, she would sit him down and tell him it's over in a gentle way and give him an explanation. You see, the girl is usually the more sensitive one in the relationship. Girls take into acount how the guy would feel. Boys simply don't want to care about those kinds of feelings.
A boy wouldn't think of a detailed valentines day. Most times when you go to the mall on February 13, you'll see a bunch of guys doing their last mintue shopping for the one they love. Girls would plan out the whole thing weeks in advance. The whole nine yards, the gift, dinner, movie and what they would want to do later. A guy would rather sit at home and play some NCAA football game then spend time with his girlfriend. Then, when asked to do something simple they're always answering back with "why?"
As can see boys don't have a sincere heart like girls do. Boys have this mind set where the girl needs to cater to him and obey whatever he says. Also, boys in a relationships think they're always right. Most times it's hard for them to admit they've made a mistake, let alone apologize for it. The boy would be the one to lie the most out of the two in a relationship. I know that for a fact because it has happened to me. A break up happened because he didn't want to be honest with me. Maybe boys do say the truth, but leave the things that'll get you pissed off out of the conversation.
Girls on the other hand cause no harm. Girls have a caring heart. They'll forgive quickly, but never forget. Instead of using the bad things that happened bring them done. It's a fire under their butt to keep pushing on forward. Every time a major holiday comes up it's the girl who thinks of everything to do. She does everything the guy asks her to do. And sadly I think girls should stand up and not take that from them anymore. It's sad becaue sometimes girls don't have any say; they just listen. So the boy doesn't look like he's whipped when around his friends. Guys should learn that the girl's feelings should count in a two-person relationship.
Boy's and girl's have their own expectations in a relationship. Boys take a little longer to understand the needs and wants of a girl. Girls shouldn't expect much from their guy. It's not easy being the girlfriend in the relationship because sometimes your feelings don't matter. Eventually the boyfriend will understand and start being the wonderful boyfriend that he can be instead of a macho man.
11 comments:
Wow! A lot of stuff that you wrote was true. Matter of fact most of it was true. but its not easy being the BF in the relationship either because we have to listen to the girls complain about life most of the time. We have problems to but we suck it up and deal with it instead of complaining about life. Great blog though. It was true. I love NCAA Football 08! HAHA
James
I thought that your blog was very interesting. I agree with some of your points. Not all boys are insensitve ego maniacs. But we can be real jerks at times. You guys do have the short end of the stick when it comes to relationships though. Good Job.
Cassey,
I like how you put in your personal experience in your blog. I do agree with you about how most BOYS act. But I also agree with eeeeeeeehhhhhh.. There are some guys out there who don't act like jerks. You just have to keep looking and don't settle for the one you're comfortable with.. If you know what I mean. But good job! =]
What you said about girls forgiving easily, but never forgetting is true. But then later, when it's all forgotten and everything is cool, some new argument pops up and here comes the old issue rearing up its ugly, forgiving, unforgetting head. The guy never outlives the memories of earlier mistakes.
Cool paper, though. Pretty fun to read.
LoL! this is so true. but there are some guys who are different. i don't wanna admit it but its true. we just need to find the right guy for us. and for the guys who broke up with u, it's his loss. but who knows, he might actually come back running.
"Women are from Venus, men are from Mars".
hah. I hate to take the bad guy's side, but now that we're older, I've realized that not all guys are like that, even though us as angry and unappreciated women, would like to think so. But good paper! I liked that you used your personal experience as an example.
Trina<3
i know what you mean and i know where your coming from. =)
it's actually pretty funny how some girls like or fall in love with jerks.
the all realize it later. once your gone. and when it's to late.
i really like your topic. I think if i had this one i could of gone on forever.
Your essay is very bias and has a one-way feel to it. your only looking at the situation from your point of view and don't take into account the other side, Especially when you say,"The boy would be the one to lie the most out of the two in a relationship." If that were the case, I would say that all girls are loud and obnoxious and wear weaves when frankly that isn't true.
girls are better than boys! you tell em.
even though i still think that we need to give the boys some credit every once in a while, i know you stand strong by your point of view!
<3 Ana
I REALLY LOVE YOUR PAPER. SO TRUE. THEY DO GET IT TWISTED MORE THAN ONCE.I KNOW YOU MAKE AWESOME DECISIONS IN LIFE BEBZ KEEP IT UP!!
LOVE YOU BEBZ..
a lot of it makes sense... even though most guys r like that, not all of them are>>>> i do agree with A LOT of what you wrote :) but there are SOME good guys out there.....
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